{"id":26903,"date":"2026-05-22T08:20:00","date_gmt":"2026-05-22T07:20:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/technews.al\/?p=26903"},"modified":"2026-05-22T08:20:01","modified_gmt":"2026-05-22T07:20:01","slug":"3-pyetjet-qe-cdo-profesionist-duhet-ti-beje-vetes-para-se-te-dergoje-nje-email-apo-te-flase-ne-nje-takim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/technews.al\/?p=26903","title":{"rendered":"3 pyetjet q\u00eb \u00e7do profesionist duhet t\u2019i b\u00ebj\u00eb vetes para se t\u00eb d\u00ebrgoj\u00eb nj\u00eb email apo t\u00eb flas\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb takim"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz reagojn\u00eb automatikisht n\u00eb komunikimet e p\u00ebrditshme n\u00eb pun\u00eb. Nj\u00eb email d\u00ebrgohet me nxitim, nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje jepet n\u00eb takim pa u menduar gjat\u00eb dhe vet\u00ebm m\u00eb pas vjen reflektimi: \u201cNdoshta nuk duhej ta kisha th\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebshtu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sipas coach-es s\u00eb lidershipit&nbsp;Aiko Bethea, pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebto reagime impulsive jan\u00eb arsyeja pse shum\u00eb profesionist\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb gabime n\u00eb komunikim, marrin vendime t\u00eb nxituara apo p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb duke th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cpo\u201d p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra q\u00eb n\u00eb fakt nuk duan t\u2019i b\u00ebjn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bethea, themeluese e kompanis\u00eb&nbsp;RARE Coaching &amp; Consulting&nbsp;dhe autore e librit \u201cAnchored, Aligned, Accountable\u201d, thot\u00eb se ekzistojn\u00eb tre pyetje t\u00eb thjeshta q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si komunikojm\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u00c7far\u00eb vler\u00ebsoj?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00c7far\u00eb impakti dua t\u00eb kem?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb roli im n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Sipas saj, njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb ndalen p\u00ebr disa sekonda p\u00ebr t\u2019i b\u00ebr\u00eb vetes k\u00ebto pyetje arrijn\u00eb t\u00eb reagojn\u00eb m\u00eb me qet\u00ebsi, t\u00eb komunikojn\u00eb m\u00eb qart\u00eb dhe t\u00eb marrin vendime m\u00eb t\u00eb menduara.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. \u201c\u00c7far\u00eb vler\u00ebsoj?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pyetja e par\u00eb lidhet me identitetin dhe vlerat personale. Bethea sugjeron q\u00eb para se t\u00eb flasim apo t\u00eb d\u00ebrgojm\u00eb nj\u00eb email, duhet t\u00eb kujtojm\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb realisht e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr ne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u00ebr shembull, n\u00ebse nj\u00eb nga vlerat kryesore \u00ebsht\u00eb puna me kuptim, por vazhdimisht po pranoni projekte q\u00eb nuk ju motivojn\u00eb, kjo pyetje mund t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb mos reagoni automatikisht me nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr \u201cpo\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Q\u00ebllimi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb refuzoni gjith\u00e7ka, por t\u00eb b\u00ebheni m\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm dhe m\u00eb intentional n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si merrni vendime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2. \u201c\u00c7far\u00eb impakti dua t\u00eb kem?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fjal\u00ebt kan\u00eb pesh\u00eb, sidomos n\u00eb komunikimin profesional. Sipas nj\u00eb studimi t\u00eb p\u00ebrmendur n\u00eb artikull, 88% e njer\u00ebzve jan\u00eb penduar menj\u00ebher\u00eb pasi kan\u00eb d\u00ebrguar nj\u00eb email.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prandaj, Bethea sugjeron q\u00eb para se t\u00eb reagojm\u00eb, t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb p\u00ebr efektin q\u00eb duam t\u00eb krijojm\u00eb te personi tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ndoshta mesazhi juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb korrekt, por toni ting\u00ebllon agresiv. Ndoshta doni t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb qart\u00eb, por po perceptoheni si t\u00eb zem\u00ebruar. 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Her\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, t\u00eb pranoni nj\u00eb gabim ose t\u00eb krijoni nj\u00eb ambient ku t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt ndihen t\u00eb sigurt p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur hapur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Komunikimi i mir\u00eb nuk fillon te fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb themi, por te vet\u00ebdija q\u00eb kemi p\u00ebrpara se t\u2019i themi ato.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz reagojn\u00eb automatikisht n\u00eb komunikimet e p\u00ebrditshme n\u00eb pun\u00eb. 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